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This post may come off as a bit harsh, but I really don’t care. Sorry to bore you, but I must go over the back story for you to understand. Growing up, I lived in a small town called Brentwood, in Northern California. I had a lot of friends and enjoyed going out and doing things. Until I moved to Los Angeles though, I never realized how culturally sheltered I truly was. I only ate Mexican, Chinese and American food, and I maybe had two black friends. I went shopping and to house parties a lot.
Now I’m living in West Hollywood, I am a lesbian and have a VERY diverse group of friends. This is what has opened my eyes and made me be a bit more judgmental of people from my home town. And just so you know, It’s not my intention to judge, but seeing as I was blind to how judgmental so many people from Brentwood are, I really have no choice.
Let me start off with the girls. Most of my friends were still on speaking terms with me when I moved out; I think it was the whole “gay” thing that really stopped the communication. Then the whispers started, like how I “must have been looking at everybody while changing”. Funny thing is, I have never been attracted to any of my friends, so I don’t understand why they flattered themselves so much. And to be honest, I am so glad I am not consumed by that world anymore. Money, boyfriends, clothes, (I would say drinking, but I definitely still enjoy that) living in the same down town…it’s just all too easy.
And don’t even get me started on the guys. Most of them are tools who think they’re super cool bros that lift their trucks and dress like dumb asses. They treat girls like shit and gossip with each other about their sexcapades. Most people may be saying “this is normal”, but from my experience outside of my small town, this is most definitely, not normal. There are decent guys who don’t only care about getting wasted, fucking this hot ass bitch, and still living at mommy and daddy’s. GROW UP. It’s these guys that make the girls so obnoxious anyway. The girls think that this is how all guys are, so they adjust their ways of interacting to get attention from the guys. In my opinion, it’s fucking pathetic.
Don’t get me wrong, not everyone from my home town is like this, and I do still have high opinions of “hella” people. Although, It seems to me that a good majority is trying to create their own little Hollywood; but sadly it’s based on a Hollywood that is fictional and portrayed inaccurately in movies and television shows. Don’t fall into the opinions of the masses, be an individual and make something of yourself. Please.